The classic guide to love, sex, and intimacy beyond the limits of conventional monogamy has been fully updated to reflect today’s modern attitudes and the latest information on nontraditional relationships.
Can you love more than one person? Have multiple romantic partners, without jealousy or cheating? Absolutely! Polyamorous people have been paving the way, through trial and painful error. Now there’s the new book More Than Two: A practical guide to ethical polyamory to help you find your own way.
The issues that make monogamous dating daunting for people of color—shaming and exclusion by white partners, being fetishized, having realities of everyday racism ignored—occur in polyamorous relationships too, and trying “not to see race” only makes it worse.$16.16ISBN: 9781944934729Availability: Usually Ships in 1-5 DaysPublished: Thorntree Press - March 29th, 2019Many of us were asked by our mother to do the dishes as children. Perhaps some of us would need to be asked more than once. Koe Creation was the type who’d get asked three times, by three different mothers. Crowded parent-teacher conferences, queer youth summer camp, and parental adoptions over potluck dinner were typical of Koe’s upbringing in a queer, polyamorous family.$16.16ISBN: 9781573442954Availability: Usually Ships in 1-5 DaysPublished: Cleis Press - May 1st, 2008
Relationship expert and bestselling author Tristan Taormino offers a bold new strategy for creating loving, lasting relationships. Drawing on in-depth interviews with over a hundred women and men, Opening Up explores the real-life benefits and challenges of all styles of open relationships -- from partnered non-monogamy to solo polyamory.$24.95ISBN: 9780692151594Availability: Usually Ships in 1-5 DaysPublished: Dr. Liz Powell - July 3rd, 2018
Have you read "that book" on non-monogamy and still wondered "But how do you actually DO this?"Are you totally great on the theory of open relationships, but feel like you don't know how it works in practice?Join Dr. Liz Powell, psychologist, speaker, and coach, as she draws from her education, research, and life experience to bring you Building Open Relationships.$17.96ISBN: 9780937609637Availability: Usually Ships in 1-5 DaysPublished: Greenery Press (CA) - September 1st, 2013
A counselor and nurse specializing in polyamorous singles, couples and groupings, Kathy Labriola has spent many years helping people to understand and manage their jealousy. This book is a compendium of the techniques and exercises she has developed, as well as tips and insights from the polyamory community's top educators, therapists and authors.$6.29ISBN: 9780996460187Availability: Usually Ships in 1-5 DaysPublished: Thorntree Press - March 1st, 2016Having a friend or family member come out to you as polyamorous can be confusing and stressful. Chances are, you have a lot of questions: Is this just a phase? Won’t they settle down someday? What’s going to happen to their kids? Do I have to invite all their partners over for Thanksgiving dinner?$30.80ISBN: 9781442253100Availability: Usually Ships in 1-5 DaysPublished: Rowman & Littlefield Publishers - July 10th, 2015
Marriage and monogamy are not what they used to be, and today many couples are opting to start families before getting married, or deciding not to get married at all. At the same time, gay couples in states that recognize same-sex marriage are getting married in droves. Some people prefer non-monogamy and have relationships that include swinging and polyamory.$27.45ISBN: 9780822361596Availability: Usually Ships in 1-5 DaysPublished: Duke University Press - May 13th, 2016
In Undoing Monogamy Angela Willey offers a radically interdisciplinary exploration of the concept of monogamy in U.S. science and culture, propelled by queer feminist desires for new modes of conceptualization and new forms of belonging.$42.85ISBN: 9781138207462Availability: Usually Ships in 1-5 DaysPublished: Routledge - March 7th, 2018
Consensual nonmonogamy (CNM) means that all partners in a relationship consent to expanded monogamy or polyamory. Clinicians are on the front line in providing support for the estimated millions pioneering these modern relationships. This first available guide for therapists provides answers to prevalent questions: What is the difference between expanded monogamy and polyamory?$22.46ISBN: 9780996460118Availability: Usually Ships in 1-5 DaysPublished: Thorntree Press - September 15th, 2016A hilarious and touching comic about polyamory, queer, and genderqueer issues. If your relationships or your gender are unconventional, you’ll find useful advice and plenty of laughs in this compilation of the wildly popular webcomic Kimchi Cuddles.Email or call for priceISBN: 9781442628694Availability: Special OrderPublished: University of Toronto Press - March 18th, 2015
Popular wisdom might suggest that jealousy is an inevitable outcome of non-monogamous relationships. In Love's Refraction, Jillian Deri explores the distinctive question of how and why polyamorists - people who practice consensual non-monogamy - manage jealousy.$15.26ISBN: 9781593762919Availability: Usually Ships in 1-5 DaysPublished: Soft Skull Press - September 4th, 2018
Named a Best Book of Fall by NYLON" Dieterich's] writing is crisp and intelligent. . . She writes about her own reckoning with her sexuality and exploration of queer identity without becoming pat or coy, giving readers intimate access to her fears and conflicting emotions." --NPR$17.96ISBN: 9781944934811Availability: Usually Ships in 1-5 DaysPublished: Thorntree Press - October 4th, 2019Polyamory is not always easy. With multiple partners often come more complex relationships to navigate. This practical guide looks at the common causes of polyamorous breakups, identifies strategies to avoid ending relationships, and provides you with the toolkit to survive a breakup. Kathy Labriola uses real life examples and expert insight as a counselor and nurse.$17.99ISBN: 9783959852838Availability: Usually Ships in 1-5 DaysPublished: Bruno Gmuender - February 1st, 2019
Who do we love? Who can we love? And how many? With Open Love, Axel Neustadter explores the possibilities and reveals the secrets of non-monogamous gay love. Fuck buddies, platonic friendships, spiritual partnerships: these are some of the possibilities beyond the traditional monogamous couple.$13.46ISBN: 9781944934422Availability: Usually Ships in 1-5 DaysPublished: Thorntree Press - October 6th, 2017Even in progressive families and communities, people who practice nonmonogamy are susceptible to misinformation and accusations of moral and emotional failings. Facing this requires its own coming out and education process. In this guide, Tamara Pincus and Rebecca Hiles provide a roadmap for explaining the expansive intricacies of the consensual nonmonogamy spectrum.$14.99ISBN: 9780991399758Availability: Usually Ships in 1-5 DaysPublished: Thorntree Press - September 1st, 2015
Franklin and Celeste’s open marriage seemed perfectly safe—until the day Amber entered his life and showed them why the heart does not obey rules.$17.96ISBN: 9781452178073Availability: Usually Ships in 1-5 DaysPublished: Chronicle Books - March 10th, 2020
Discover the secrets to successful open relationships. A Happy Life in an Open Relationship is a handbook to healthy nonmonogamous relationships.$16.95ISBN: 9781626250581Availability: Usually Ships in 1-5 DaysPublished: New Harbinger Publications - September 1st, 2015
At a time when society no longer imposes many sexual taboos, why is open marriage still considered beyond the pale? Written by Gracie X, Wide Open is an enthusiastic, honest, and sometimes raw account of one woman's experience living polyamorously within the context of her average American family.Email or call for priceISBN: 9781459740402Availability: Special OrderPublished: Dundurn Group - December 11th, 2018
A look at how people are giving themselves a choice to love another way.$30.80ISBN: 9781479886227Availability: Usually Ships in 1-5 DaysPublished: New York University Press - August 16th, 2016
A man and woman are in an open relationship. They have agreed that having sexual partners outside of their relationship is permissible. One night, when her partner is in another city, the woman has sex with the man's best friend. What does this mean for their relationship?$17.95ISBN: 9781627781473Availability: Usually Ships in 1-5 DaysPublished: Cleis Press - September 8th, 2015
Contemporary relationships are in a state of rapid evolution. These changes can and should empower people with the opportunity to develop partnerships based on their own sexualities, understandings, and agreements.Email or call for priceISBN: 9781616081935Availability: Special OrderPublished: Skyhorse - February 8th, 2011
The idea of open relationships seduces more and more men and women who wish to foster a healthy partnership while maintaining multiple lovers. The Art and Etiquette of Polyamory helps couples who want to better understand, or to begin an exploration of, the emotional, sexual, and intellectual mores of polyamory.$17.06ISBN: 9781587900150Availability: Usually Ships in 1-5 DaysPublished: Regent Press - March 1st, 2020
Don't let the title fool you. this IS a serious, thoughtful (and thought-provoking) comprehensive introduction to, and examination of, a much misunderstood and misused practice. But more than that, it is a witty, provocative, damn fine read, with as much to offer to the faithfully monogamous as to those looking for a bit more out of life, love and relationships. Go on. Dive in.$15.29ISBN: 9781510712089Availability: Usually Ships in 1-5 DaysPublished: Skyhorse - February 7th, 2017
Here is an intelligent and comprehensive guide to alternative to monogamy offering relationship advice that might change your ideas about sex, love, and relationships.
This practical guidebook will help women break free of the mold of traditional monogamy, without the constraints of jealousy, possessiveness, insecurity, and competition.$15.29ISBN: 9781501189784Availability: Usually Ships in 1-5 DaysPublished: Gallery Books - June 26th, 2018
“A fast-paced debut… A candid, modern take on polyamory for fans of memoirs and graphic novels, and anyone interested in stories of dating, love, and romance.” —Library Journal
After trying for years to emulate her boomer parents’ forty-year and still-going-strong marriage, Sophie realized that maybe the love she was looking for was down a road l